NB: This post has nothing to mock down the whole women society. The examples sketched in this post is completely drawn from true life happenings.
Well for many weeks i was totally blanked what to write in my blog because i was totally out of ideas.. But for somedays i was totally disturbed with the poor and out of standard behavior of the females in the society.. Well i don’t complaint the whole women community.. But as we all know when a person in a community commits something bad the whole burden will be on the shoulders of the community too…. So by this post I am not trying to mock the whole women community but trying to bring something to their attention… Moreover I am not a chauvinist too…!!!
In India, especially in Kerala women are considered as mother, devi( Female God) etc because of the pain they suffer to build up the next generation, all the sacrifices they make in their life and mainly due to their moral virtues… They were able to change a person and they were considered as the light of the family…!! So because of this I think many women protection communities came up for their protection and even government gave more importance to women in social stuffs… They were given more preferences and many other facilities…
Well lemme ask, are the ladies now deserved to be respected (Especially those in Kerala)…???? Do they deserve anything from the society..??? You think what the bull shit I am writing well, I wold like to state my point through some incidents that happened in Kerala…!!!!
The most cracking shit incident that I would like to state is a news that was there in a newspaper very recently.. The news was like this : “Lady given complaint against hubby for misbehaving in kitchen.”
Huh….. I would like to uncover the complete story… The story is like this : “One day the lady was cooking. Husband was pretty a funny type guy. He came to the kitchen a gave a hot kiss to his wife showing his love towards her… And from now the problem starts…!! Well while a small funny chit-chat conversation between the couples the husband came and gave a slap to his wife’s butt…. She didn’t like it… But as playing around funny the husband gave 2 more… The lady got angry and gave a complaint against him….!!! “
What a heck..!! Well if a husband cannot touch his own wife’s body them who else would he touch..????? And moreover the women protection cell as even charged against this poor guy for misbehaving in the kitchen……!!!
Well I am not yet finished…. I have another example too… Well this is not a news reported anywhere…!! This is an incident which I came to witness..!!
The incident is : ” A lady is pregnant and is going to deliver a child…. Happy news rite..?? But there is one problem.. The lady wants to give birth to the child but she don’t want to deliver because she don’t want to suffer the delivery pain..!!! She is asking the doctor to make the delivery in some other painless way…!! Then the doctor said we shall do the operation..!!! Hmmm…. Well the lady rejected it too.. She doesn’t want operation…. She says that it would affect the beauty of her body structure…!!! “
Very nice incident na..???? Huh.. why should she want to be a mother if she cannot even suffer the pain of giving birth to her own blood..?????
Well I am not yet finished… I have many things to state… But since time matters for me, I am going to state 2 or 3 examples more and going to end this post..!!
Well next incident I would like to state is another one which happened near my relative’s home. Well here is the incident..!! ” A guy married a girl (his love)… Well after marriage the main dream of the girl is to become a mother…!! Well after few months the lady got pregnant…!! Happy news for the family..!! Well here is how the lady responded to it..!! ” Oh god… how the hell the crap got up here..??? I don’t want to carry this piece of flesh…!! Moreover I don’t want to carry it even in future too…!! I don’t want anything to ruin my happiness….!! I want to enjoy my life in all means and I don’t want anything to ruin it…!! So please help me to get rid of it…!! Else I would do it by myself..!! “…. Poor family…. they tried to make the girl understand… but every attempt failed….!! Finally the girl herself got rid of the gift….!! Well according to family the girl just wants to go to films, eat food, go to parties and mainly enjoy sexual life… thats all…!! “
Huh….. Well just one more example… and i am stopping this…. Because I am getting very angry too…. I also hope all the guys reading this will to have the same feeling…….!!!
My last example….!!!! Almost everyone has heard of Ernakulam… The people living here has the fastest and busiest life than the others….!! Well in this example i am going to point out the dressing and behaving styles of ladies….!!
I most often go to Ernakulam. Since many big budget schools hail there many good and sexy looking girls will be here and there..!!!! One day I came to go to a club for a party in Ernakulam…. Well since a club party, wines and hot stuffs were everywhere and all of them were drinking and dancing including young girls…!! The funniest thing is that a girl is crying…!! The reason for which she is crying is that she was the only girl who wore a skirt which had a length up to her kness and all others were wearing micros and very short tops (short means very short exposing their chest and belly…!! And the vulgar shit was that the tops were too tight even for them to breathe….!!).. Very nice problem to cry for…!! Also after this all, it was time for the real party.. Everyone came to dance floor…..!!! Time to rock na…!! Yeah it was really a time to rock…..!!! All the girls who came there was totally out of mind and was falling on men and was behaving very rubbish…!!
Really great enjoyment for guys..!!! Hehehehe…..!!! If the girls goes this way would any guy in Kerala will get a lady who is a vrigin in future….??????? Can the parents allow their children go alone anywhere….>????? Moreover if these are happening the person responsible surely will the person’s mother…..!!!!!
The last part of the last example…!!! Well as I said i do often go to Ernakulam… Yet another coolest scene I would like to describe is that, we could see grandmas and mothers wearing tight t-shirts and sleeveless dresses with cooling glasses wandering here and there as society ladies….!!! Huh… nice to hear…!! I think this dressing styles of older ladies really support our tradition…!! Seeing all these how would the young/future generation wear dresses in the right way..????
Well I had more to write…. but I think this will be enough for the time-being…!! Well so where are the virtues that were praised about women gone….???? What are these ladies trying to prove..??? Is this because there are women protection cell to take action if men raises his voice against them……???? Or is this because they think they can do anything because law takes their word directly without any verifications……..???? What has happened…..??? What is the main reason for this occurrences…..??? Has the women lost all their virtues…..?????
good work dude but one question
y v acuse gals only for not keeping virtues
this is a problem for this new generation as a whole. guys are also not keeping the virtues r they.
as a son as a student as a lover as a husband as a father
r v keeping?
loose of ethics virtues and values its our generation problem. its more visible in gals bcos they r more free in all means than b4 and v notice them or may b men were like this b4
our generation is trying to make new values ethics and virtues. most of them are nt gud for the existance of human race and our social behavior. v r going back to the ape state.
first of all the thread is too old ..n ter r a lot new threads in the soceity now.For eg-the NEw indain Family, The metrosecxual couples, n even the Office spouses…All this r acting as d root cause 4 the increse f Divorce rates…i donno y author took this old topic …n wen u write a bolg,a blogger is not supposed 2 express his emotions with slug words such as “Shit” n such stuffs…its seen many a times he had used d stuff..dnt kn whthr he knw only this word…n d attempt is gud..i apppreciate…but u hav 2 thnk sum bit mre..
n i thnk d author had gone 4 sum north indian party..n u cannt judge people on thier dressing style..coz they r used with that..n tats d new indian metro sexual youth..n they r comfortable in that..How can u say that the old ladies shudnt wear tights n skirts…wht happen if they wear that?? did our tradition n heritage values will come down…Look if u r luking in that aspect, kerala pals never had a tradition f club parties?..thn y u had visted there?..if u r aint that u shud not go there?…n wen a gal wears a short top n walks if the mallu ’s veins get tightend n his mout is watered tats d prblm f his mind n not thier dress?..if u go 2 euro countries n wen u see d two piece gals wht will u say?…Luk its nt the mattr wht u wear or wht u do..it shud support our culture,n that doesnt mean not 2 be modernised??
n abt virginity i too accept that part..but lemme ask who else break thier virginity..who i sresponsible 4 that?…who all ask 4 virginty certificate..its only mallu boys?…luk the time 4 mallu gals 2 ask 4 Blood test is not so far….
n Pls dont judge people by out ward apperance….
Well thanx for the suggestion..!! I will surely take care of it..!!
Old topic… hmm… even though old there many spicy things running around making the old topic more newer..>
But the party thing… I went for a club party @ near Kadavanthara..!!And the participants were those in Jawahar nagar, giri nagar etc..!! almost of them were keralites too…!!
Then about the word…!! if u were specifying it used inside a lady’s comment, then i should say that i sensored it up to an extent..!! But if i sensor it more then i think that there wud be no meaning in stating her dialogue..!!!
Then well mouth watering thing..!! that i agree it with u..!!! But i was just pointing out the dressing style..!!
any thanx for the comment..!! and i hope more like these in future..!!
interesting topic. well, the wife complaining husband’s misbehaviour is not confined 2 this event alone. there hav been quite a no of such events where wifes treat their husbands like molestors
but some of these events that u mentioned are not confined to women alone. for eg. wife wanting 2 abort the baby for pleasure. there are also men who force their wives to abort saying they want to enjoy life.
about the party thing… wat can 1 say. we cant classify the world into good and bad. not all women wearing salwar are sati-savitri, and not all micro wearing girls are immoral.
all we cud say is some women hav lost their virtues, mayb due to bad influence from men. but if me point a finger at the whole female community, then they can point a finger at the entire male community as well.
@ Anson
i have a few things to bring 2 ur notice.
1) i think a blogger has rights to express his feelings about anything in his blog. why else does he blog? Blog is a platform for us to share our views, opinions etc.
2) the increase in divorce rates has nothing 2 do with metrosexuality etc… Today most women are well educated and have good jobs. so if thy don’t want to live with their husbands, they are confident to quit the marraige as they hav income to support them.
Divorces are not sin. Why shud one person live with another if they dont like living with each other anymore? It is only fair that people get divorce if they are not compatible with their partners
3) Even if the author has gone to a north indian party, the girls who r wearing miniskirts are acting in an immoral way. I dont say wearing miniskirts is wrong, but having booze and falling over men is wrong.
I am a strong believer, that one shud consume alcohol only if he/she can carry himself/herself thru it.
4) Even if the girls are from north india, they are women too. the author doesn’t talk about girls from a particular state. and does state matter wen some1 is acting in a way they shudnt act in public.
If a girl from North India is caught in kerala (in some scandal) can she escape punishment saying this is common in north india?
5) If u say kerala girls never go to club parties, then think again… The author never says the girls shudn’t go to parties. all he said was they shudnt behave like this.
6) not only a mallu’s, but any MAN’s viens will tighten on seeing a girl in micro minis. Did u know Delhi (from North India) is the rape capital on India
I too agree with it….
Check out my experience at http://blog.nijumohan.com/2008/12/25/calicut-is-really-growing-like-bangalore/
2 Varun AHad
dear bro
1> pls do chk wats the meaning of METRO SEXUALITY..n Pls do a study atleast b4 u comment…coz as im doin am PG psyco,i hav 2 go thru many case studies…n pls do chk the thrd i hav gvn…i said abt the divorces caused by metrosexualty..that means the office spouses…if a person cant stay with d partner y he shud marry..look marrge is a commitment n also an agrement 2 accept other’s concept n will commit 2 thm…ndivorces are not sin i 2 agree…bu temme the FUTURE of The coming genrations.Do u knw hw much incrse happin kerala in the suicide rate f Teenagers…pls go n ck abt that.Y oprhanages r needed in india…pls do chk,n Lemme ask the futuer of “kunjatta”..daughtr f a star-couple….wht will u say..if aperson wen he is attrctd 2 new gal or guy,if she brekas with the partner…its calph love dude..n not real love.
2.Y i accept the blogger has the right 2 express the feelings..Ter r many writrs i\b4 this blogger>.Hav u ever heard f KAZANTAZAKIS, Francis FOukiyama n Samuel .p> hunington….pls go..they r famous for emotional intellligence…the persons who used 2 criticize in a harsh language…but “holy Shit ” is not the apt word 4 a blogger 2 express his feelings….Many f d news channels n writers fight with ter own arguments…but in india even the yout channel MTV too will “mute ” the heck wrods with a beep sound..unless they will get a warning frm ministry..if a younster read this blog n atrrctd by the language im sure he will 2 expres thru d same….
3. n one mre..lemme y d author gone 2 parties..if he dont like this…im sure that he knw abt this parties na…luk i dint say its gud or not..ters a old proverb in mallayalam…..”visham kudichal marikkum enarriyan arum visham kudichu nokkarillla”….n pls wen u get time pls do vist the new corporate life style..once i 2 thnkd in ur views…but d thng is that…how can u say that falling over man is wrong..who lese knw that its ter lovers or not…n in kerala only couple parties are allowed…( i thnk so..im nt sure)..othrs will b bannd …so temme abt kovalam beach….wht will u say…ha…ladies used 2 wear bikinies….rite na…parties r also ter..na luk its nt d matter wht u wear..lemme ask..
>>>>>>did the MUSLIM GALS r being raped??..they used 2 cover thmselves with a parda…evn thn they are alsoe bein raped…luk its ones feedom 2 wear wht..i 2 agree that one shud not expose thmselves….but i f they like wearing bikinies hw can u say that nt 2 wear in secular state like india…so abt tradition…wht was the dress f ladies in puransas..its named as “mulakacha”…rite na..BIKINI only the modification f that..u knw…actually bikini was intrdcd by Anna n her hubby frm indian KS(hope u knw the full form)…its nt mattr hw r they drssd..its only on the behaviour…so let the guys change ther mind…wevn gas wering sarees r also bein raped…so one tngs v can do that pary 2 god n gv the govn a appeal that” ladies shud wear Sarees during DISCO sessins?…”
n ……>>>>>
last bro…if a human saw a gal beautiful…if its her hand…its natures package 2 human…n d thng is tat do u kn on mre tng
Delhi carries the 80% of gigolas n Prostitutes….thn 2 rapes r in a high rate…just thnk y…n also its nt in the metro youth who wears short dress..its only 17%..the rest is in between the illetrate poor gals u knw…so temme wht they wear …mini skirts,???…huh…..n wen u go thru the streets ter is a advtsmnt…”"”PLS PAY 500 NOW 2 AVOID THE FUTUREPAYMENT OF 50,000″…its the ad for abortion…50,000 is d dowry..so temme who is resposnible..the new age metro youth…aaaa….luk as gandiji said..’ we cant change the old genrations..only thng 2 do is with d youngsters”….n d thngs is that get thm freedom 2 live without a force full life style….n wen u said abt the north india pals..lemme ask..hw many gals travel with mallu giuys in bikes or bus….but wht abt North?..how many do combine study with gals in kerala…wht abt north?…hw many trusts mllu guys…wht abt northies…luk its d matter hw we behave …so 2 ma gud frnd..pls read
buks f Dale Carniege n
body language by ” Allan pease”
I apprecite d authors attempt n His eyes twrds Soacial issues..tats a gud part..but u have 2 be sum mre Mature in threads….u did a gud job..n cngrats 4 that