Happy Life Today, Tomorrow and ever after…!! April 22, 2010

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Even-though I’m just 21, due to certain circumstances [:P] my Dad gave me some marriage tips for my happy married life. I am very proud and thankful to GOD for giving me such a very precious Dad [:)] . And i would like to share the tips I got with you guys..

Marriage isn’t a child game… its a Life time game..(everyone knows it).. Many couples “do” or “are taught to do”, what the society call it “adjustment“.. But is the life gonna be successful by performing this “adjustment” act..? Or is there anything that we need to know or prepare before marriage to avoid this “adjustment” ..?

My Dad says that preparations for marriage life should start atleast from the age of 18 (both boys and girls).and once after its settled its time to pray for marriage life.. Bcz after marriage you won’t get time for that..

I donno how many are aware of this.. But due to certain circumstances, I was given marriage life tips avoiding preparatory steps..!!

So lemme share it with you

Preparatory Steps :

According to Dad, preparatory steps should start from the age of 20. The preparatory steps/ tips are only few.. But really vital..

1. Prayer : The most vital step. From the age of 18 both boys and girls need to pray for their partner. That is, pray to GOD to get the good/ best partner for his/her life. Moreover they should also pray to make them ready to lead a good/ happy/ perfect family life.

2. Control in Life : Along with prayer, we should have a control over our life flow. The youth era is the speedy time which influences an great extreme in your life. Control in life includes —  Control in money flow, control in expenditure, Personnel cleanliness etc..!!! Also starting to be a head of the family after your Dad (like joining Dad in taking decisions, handling households in the absence of Dad etc..) and taking care of the family also comes under this category..

3. The Cook : Always be ready to face the situation of cooking food. Both boys and girls should know to prepare food when an situation arises (especially boys)..!!

Marriage Tips :

Hope you guys found the preparatory steps useful. Now its time to share the most important thing.. “Marriage Tips“..  Since the tips were meant for me.. most tips will be meant for boys and some in common..!!

1. Marriage is not about sex or luxury life, its all about the trust that one is there for the other at anytime anywhere

2. Never marry a girl to take care for your parents.. Marry her for you and take good care of her

3. Never make your marriage a bond between 2 families.. always make it a bond between 2 hearts.. (very very important)

4. Never and ever make it happen to use the society crap “ADJUSTMENT“

5. Always be 40% best friend to your partner and remaining  60% husband

6. If any small shocks arises in your relationship, never let your parents even come to know about it

7. Never try to rule your wife, But always be the King

8. Always be happy and proud seeing the happy face of your partner… and always try to keep your partner’s face happy..

9. Forgive one another. Don’t hang on to past baggage and past hurts. Be willing to let go and to move forward with your lives.

10. Be able to stand on your own feet as a couple and not be dependent either financially or emotionally on either of your parents

11. Accept your differences and don’t try to change your spouse

12. Continue to be committed to each other and celebrate your sense of commitment

13. Keep romance alive in your marriage (very very important)

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